Monday, March 25, 2013

being judgemental

People do have opinions and form opinions based on their understanding . whether or not they are true is a different story. But why accuse people being 'judgmental' as if it is some sacrelege ? Earlier , accusing people of 'judgmental' used to be fashionable. Now it almost become a boring perversion. Any one can accuse any one of any thing for judging. I mean it's like 'one size fits all' mentality. We are all judgmental, it's good not to become too self-righteous because our opinions are based on our limited experience and reflexion and we often miss parts of the reality of others. Forming an opinion is not necessarily being judgemental. The latter implies a condemnation of others - which is about expecting others to live by your chosen standards.Being opinionated is not the same thing as being judgmental. it is always better to be curious than judgemental.

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